“What Tension Is As Old As humanity?”
That’s a great question Beloved and the answer is, the tension between grace and retribution. You see, Retribution demands repayment, a balancing of the scales by human hands. Whereas grace, on the other hand, releases the right to strike back and extends forgiveness that feels undeserved. Jesus Himself showed us this contrast: while the world cried out for justice at the cross, He responded with “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34).
In the Old Testament, we see the natural response of humanity—“an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth” (Exodus 21:24). Justice was immediate, clear, and measured. It gave structure to a broken world, but it never healed the heart.
Then, in the New Testament, Jesus raised the standard: “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44). He shifted the focus from retribution to grace. Instead of balancing the scales with vengeance, He invites us to reflect the mercy we’ve received from God.
Paul echoed this when he wrote, “Do not repay anyone evil for evil… If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:17-18). Grace does not ignore wrongs—it releases us from the poison of revenge and places justice in God’s hands.
Here’s the deal and hopefully this truth will release some of tension that’s created when wrestling with these two. Grace doesn’t erase justice, but it allows God to be the ultimate judge while we walk free from the bitterness that revenge brings. Choosing grace is hard—it feels unfair. Yet it’s the very essence of the Gospel we’ve received.
So today Beloved, when you’re tempted to demand repayment for hurt, remember: God has already given you undeserved grace—so it’s best to extend it forward.
Pray with Me:
Lord, teach me to choose grace over retribution. Remind me of the mercy You’ve shown me, and help me reflect Your heart—even when it’s hard. In Jesus name we pray believe receive and praise in advance. Amen.
4GIVEN 